谁没有过去？

今天突然想起圣经里的一段经文：

约翰福音8章3-11节
文士和法利赛人，带着一个行淫时被拿的妇人来，叫他站在当中。就对耶稣说，夫子，这妇人是正行淫之时被拿的。摩西在律法上吩咐我们，把这样的妇人用石头打死。你说该把她怎么样呢？
他们说这话，乃试探耶稣，要得着告他的把柄。耶稣却弯着腰用指头在地上画字。
他们还是不住地问他，耶稣就直起腰来，对他们说，你们中间谁是没有罪的，谁就可以先拿石头打她。于是又弯着腰用指头在地上画字。他们听见这话，就从老到少一个一个地都出去了。只剩下耶稣一人。还有那妇人仍然站在当中。耶稣就直起腰来，对她说，妇人，那些人在哪里呢？没有人定你的罪吗？她说，主阿，没有。耶稣说，我也不定你的罪。去吧。从此不要再犯罪了。

John 8：3-11
The teachers of the law and the Pharisees brought in a woman caught in adultery. They made her stand before the groupand said to Jesus, "Teacher, this woman was caught in the act of adultery. In the Law Moses commanded us to stone such women. Now what do you say?" They were using this question as a trap, in order to have a basis for accusing him. But Jesus bent down and started to write on the ground with his finger. When they kept on questioning him, he straightened up and said to them, "If any one of you is without sin, let him be the first to throw a stone at her." Again he stooped down and wrote on the ground. At this, those who heard began to go away one at a time, the older ones first, until only Jesus was left, with the woman still standing there.Jesus straightened up and asked her, "Woman, where are they? Has no one condemned you?" "No one, sir," she said. " Then neither do I condemn you," Jesus declared. "Go now and leave your life of sin."

对，谁没有过去？谁不曾犯错？
把这个道理运用在感情/爱情上，现在的社会里，有多少人能够和初恋情人终生到老？
难道有过几段感情就代表那人是多情种吗？尤其是女人，我觉得常常会得到不公平的看待。
女人有超过一段感情就是水性杨花，但若发生在男人身上人们却觉得很正常。请记得，一段感情一定会有一男一女（除非是同性恋）。
听见一些不好的评论，多少会不开心，but what are they to judge who am I?
就如耶稣说的：“你们中间谁是没有罪的，谁就可以先拿石头打她。”对，谁正在拥有一段有爱无性的感情的，你就有资格来评论别人，不然请你在评论别人之前，先想想自己有没有资格去说话。

后记：
*今天脾气有点躁，一大早就笨笨地踢了weighing scale一脚，好像踢了它量的体重就会比较轻。。结果小脚趾头黑了一大块（因为内积血，内伤了 :( ），穿上高跟鞋走路时，每走一步都要了我的命。还要笨到忘了吃早餐，再笨到买了准备要拿来当午餐的饼干都忘了带，结果一整天都没吃，捱到晚餐才有食物进入肚子，好心酸的一天喔！永远都用来安慰自己及催眠自己的一句话“明天会更好”。。。gambateh。。q**p